Do Married Men And Women Look For Single Partners On Dating Sites?

Trusting is a very difficult thing to do. Whether you are online or offline, you can never be sure if the other person is telling you the truth or not. But the most difficult is the dating scene online.

Married people are on the look out for dates or want to have extra marital affairs and cyberspace gives them the anonymity to do what they want. It is a popular opinion that men are the main perpetrators but truth be told, women are not far behind.

There are some women who look for friends on the dating sites when they are between partners because they don't want to be alone.

But all this does not take away from the fact that there are genuine people online who are looking for the perfect match and they're single too.

The married lot who are looking to have some fun elsewhere generally go to sites where there are like minded people. So chances of your meeting any one of this kind are slim. But it could happen anyway that the one person you talk to and get along with turns out to be married.

To avoid getting caught up in a hopeless adulterous situation, ensure that you get to know the person and verify information wherever you can.

Accepting the online profile blindly is a no-no - be very careful and go prepared for the unexpected if you do plan to meet them in person. This is because love tends to grow faster on the net and the person could be filling you up with a lot of wrong misleading personal information.

There will be a lot of guilty feelings if you do get caught unaware in an unpleasant situation where you find out that the partner had a spouse who does not know about what he is doing.

Once you do find out, if at all you do, that the person you are chatting with is playing around a lot in the virtual world, then your first line of action should be to stop any further discussion and end the friendship. Once this is done, you can move on and look for someone who is willing to be open and up front in talking about his status.

Today there are discussions in blogs and forums whether such misrepresentation can be a violation of one’s constitutional rights. Ensure that when you are talking to someone you ask enough questions so as to get an idea whether you are being misled or not.

What you must keep in mind is that even if it does happen to you, these people are in the minority when it comes to the Internet so don't lose hope and faith. The majority of the dating pool are singles looking for singles.