Are Married Men and Women Seeking Single Partners on Dating Sites?

Yes there are married people online trying to date the singles. This happens in the real world and online. Online dating sites make it easier for married persons to attract singles who are looking to date. These married people are not looking for a wonderful romantic relationship. They are looking to have an extra-marital affair. They are cheaters.

This kind of thing happens in your off line world , as most of us are aware of. We have all met the type, and have learned to read the signals they give off.

When we think of a cheating spouse we tend to think of a man. Sometimes that isn't the case. It can also be a married women looking to have an extra-marital affair. No sex is the innocent one in the game of cheating on your partner. It works both ways.

Thank goodness this is not the average dating site member. For the most part online dating site members are two single people looking for a perfect match for themselves. The married scum who try to pick up singles usually don't look for a relationship. They are more likely to want to play the field. They will be impatient and pushy, so don't be fooled by them.

There are precautions you can take to make sure you don't get burned by a married person looking for a fling. There are common sense rules to online dating, and in your head you know you would be foolish not to learn and follow them.

Make sure you get to know the person you are thinking about dating. You may have read their profile, and thought they sounded great. But you must take the time to get to know them before you actually decide to meet them. No one who is looking for a genuine relationship that can grow wants to be in an adulterous fling.

It seems that love on the net moves quickly so you have to protect yourself at all times from people who may not be telling the truth about themselves and what they are looking for.

You certainly don't need to be concerned with the guilt and shameful feelings that come along with a cheating relationship. Even if you didn't realize the person you were seeing was married, you will still have those feelings and you could be emotionally damaged by this kind of affair.

If you should find out that someone you have been connecting with online is married, you must stop the talks and emails immediately and move on to someone else. Don't give the person, who lied to you in the first place, a second chance. There is no chance for you to find an honest, good partner with this kind of creep. And they do not deserve another chance. End of discussion.

It has been said in some blogs that a person who is married and preys on online dating site members is violating the unknowing person's (the victim's) constitutional rights. This brings legal issues to the front of this dilemma, not only ethical or moral ones.

All you have to do is pay attention. There are signals that a married person, or a cheating person, give off. If you ask questions and get strange answers from your prospective new date, don't question it. If this person is telling you stuff that doesn't make sense to you, why would you pursue them? Don't be desperate. Always remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

When you meet someone online, make sure you chat and email a lot. Learn to know the person before you meet them. If things seem funny or odd to you, do not meet them Move on to your next prospect. Just use your common sense and you will ensure that online dating is a fun experience for you. Hopefully one where you meet your perfect match!