Online Dating Tips For Men

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In online dating, the men are said to be more aggressive in finding a date than the women. Men are the ones sending messages, while the women receive them. A woman would usually receive more than 50 messages asking for date online. Therefore, a man has to stand out otherwise he does not stand a chance of finding an online date.

Be sure there is uniqueness in your message title as well as the message itself. But do not overdo it as you do not sound fake and just trying to impress. If you want to make a great impression, you may start by discussing about her profile. Surely she will be interested in you for giving the impression that you really read about her.

With girls receiving tons of messages, you are definitely be sending messages you will not receive any response to. They key to successful online dating is to write to as many women online, especially those who share your likes and interests in order to ensure enough responses. Never focus on just a single prospect. Focusing your energy on just one person who does not respond, or might have responded, but later on stop communicating after an email or two would be such a waste of time.

Some words of exaggeration may help you initially in your quest for an online date, but eventually it will only put you in a mess. For example, if you tell your online friend you are a six-footer, she would only be disappointed and even disgusted to see that you are not when you finally meet. Present online who and what you really are. Surely, you would want someone who likes you for what you are, so it is best to tell her all the truth about you.

When trying to find an online date, stay away from controversial topics such as politics and sex especially when you are trying to get to know her. Go for the more common topics like your job, family and even religion. Likewise, do not turn her off by making her feel you are obsessed and crazy about her.

Avoid sending too many messages or sending pictures of your family or even your pet dog; this are unnecessary gestures that might only backfire by making her less interested in you because of your too much appreciation of her.


 
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