Surviving a Date - Some Helpful Dating Advice

By Bob Pardue

Dating is a ritual that you will most likely have to face at some point in your life. Not everyone is a natural born dater and many teens struggle with the fact they are going to share two or three hours of time with a person they just met today. It can sometimes be unsettling to even the most outgoing young girl.

The most intelligent step you can take when it comes to meeting and spending time with a new acquaintance is to search for some solid advice on dating. You can find dating advice (good and bad) in current publications for teen girls and by listening to talk shows in the media that are geared to both genders.

Dating: What are some of the first steps I need to take?

Obviously, the first step to dating is finding someone you want to spend time with. Although you may think this statement is over simplified dating for teen girls can prove to be a real challenge for the most seasoned dater.

Many experts who focus on teen dating say to use a variance of methods to find a suitable person to date. One such dating method that seems to be working for many people is the online dating sites. The electronic age along with the information highway called the Internet has opened many new doors for teen girls of dating age and has opened a can of worms worthy of debate.

The dating site not only screens potential suitors but they also offers advice on dating for teen girls who may not have experience with the online dating scene.

OK! I have set up a date, now what?

Once you have discovered that special someone you are dying to spend more time with it is now time to decide on what you two are going to do for an entire evening or afternoon. One helpful suggestion is to find something really interesting you both can enjoy. The date will go smoother if there is a common interest and you will have something in common to talk about helping to avoid those dreaded "silent" periods.

The custom for teen dating is to enjoy a nice lunch or dinner at an upscale restaurant in addition to a movie or some other form of entertainment. Granted this is a terrific way to get to know your date, why not contemplate something more exciting and off the wall.

If you and your date are more on the athletic side, consider something like rock climbing, a sports event or even snorkeling. The more artistic side to teen dating suggests that you visit an art museum or attend a classical music concert. You do not have to date the same as every other teen. Unusual dates create lasting memories. You will find many resources online to help you come up with hundreds of dating ideas to enhance your relationship.

What about the Second Date?

The first date gets most of the awkwardness out of the way and you will most likely feel more comfortable if you find you really like each other. The rapport builds and can lead to spending more and more time together including participation in family events. Don't be in a rush here. Meeting your date's family is a huge step in your relationship. Be prepared to give a favorable first impression but remember to be yourself when attending these family get-togethers.

Talking - The magic of Communication in Dating

Each teen dating relationship has it's own set of templates but there is one common thread that can be found in nearly every successful union. If your relationship with this person is going to advance to the next level of intimacy, communication is essential. Most articles of advice on dating will tell you to keep the lines of communication open with your new partner. Talking is contagious and, remember also to listen!

Laughter - The best medicine

There is nothing better than a good sense of humor when it comes to successful dating for teen girls. No matter if you are going on your first date or you have been going out with the same person for weeks or years. Maintain some good, old-fashioned fun in your relationship every time you meet. Playfulness will help you to enjoy your date today and look forward to your next date. Let's face it, boredom is a real relationship killer. Live life fully and enjoy the ride!

Bob Pardue is a professional stock and fashion model photographer located in the Southeastern USA. Get a free model mini-course delivered by email just by going to http://www.bobpardue.com/model/model-report/

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