10 Must Have Online Dating Tips

By Norbert Lukacsi

10 Must Have Online Dating Tips
Norbert Lukacsi


Have you ever thought of meeting people online? If so, meeting
people online can be great fun. Online dating has given us the
opportunity from our comforts of our own home to search for
that someone. Let your common sense prevail when searching
online and do not let your instincts lessen when making your
decision. Please see the dating tips below which will make your
search safe, a lot of fun and most importantly successful.

* Dating Tip #1

Most common form of introduction would be to say" Please Allow
me to introduce myself" I use this one myself, it helps to break
the ice and it is polite yet confident.

Have you ever tried to introduce yourself in a night club or a
bar? I am sure you have. Do you say "Hi my name is"... my
telephone number and my address is such and such... No I
thought not. When you introduce yourself on
http://Iwantudating.com, please use common sense and do not
reveal any personal details about yourself. This is one great
thing about online dating. Take as much time as you need in
getting to know someone before being comfortable enough in
revealing all there is to know about you. So make sure you are
not pressured.

* Dating Tip #2

Do not lie about yourself on your profile. People will
eventually find out you are having them on.

* Dating Tip #3

Do take the time to complete the entire profile on the
registration form - Any unanswered questions say you could not
be bothered or are hiding something. Try and complete the form
as much as possible to let any potential contact know the real
you.

* Dating Tip #4

Have you ever heard of the phrase "Honesty is the best policy"
I am sure you have. Honesty is admired yet dishonesty is being
disrespectful. Tell the people you are emailing your true
intentions and it should be the correct path to successful
dating. Always remember, that you must use your common sense
and judgement. I know it is not easy to judge who you are
contacting on the other side so please assess who you are being
honest with.

* Dating Tip #5

Now here is good dating advice. Add a nice photo. A photo of
you. A smiling photo. A smiling photo up close. A recent
smiling photo up close! Make sure your photos are recent
preferably less than 6 months old) and that you are happy.
Members with photos are likely to get up to 9 times more
replies than members without any photo image attached to their
profile.

* Dating Tip #6

Do not talk or brag about your ex. There is nothing more of a
turn off for people to hear about your previous
relationships. Instead focus on what you already have. The past
is often best forgotten.

* Dating Tip #7

Always try and reply to people's messages and reply in a
reasonable amount of time, not weeks later. If you are serious
about dating, you are serious about replying. They have taken
the time to talk or write to you and they may be really nice.

* Dating Tip #8

Has it ever happened to you where you are talking to a stranger
and you are wondering what they look like? Our brains tend to
create an image in our mind of what someone might look like. It
is only our natural instinct to do so. If you ever meet or met
the person they did not look anything like you had in your
mind? Am I right? Of Course. Unfortunately none of us are
psychic so I suggest you you ask for a picture and you can feel
more comfortable with whom you are emailing.

* Dating Tip #9

Always and I mean always meet your date in a mutual place
during the day which both of you are comfortable with. Always
advise a friend or a relative of where you are going and leave
a contact number. Do not leave any Drinks
unattended. Unfortunately and it must be said that we live in
cruel and sick world. Please if you have an alcoholic drink
then please drink moderately.

* Dating Tip #10

Be Realistic. Most fairytale stories do not have a happy
ending. If they sound perfect fit , it does not necessarily mean
send the wedding Invitations out yet. If this date does not work
out do not worry it will not be your last first date. If it does
not lead to a next date then pack your bags and move on to the
next potential candidate on your list. Do not be put off.

Remember there are plenty of fish in the Sea. So make sure you
choose wisely.

About The Author: Norbert is the owner and the author of Dating
Variety Newsletter available at http://www.iwantudating.com  or
http://www.datingvariety.com


 
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